Even though married couples can come to counselling anytime to strengthen their bond, there are certain times when coming to therapy is strongly advised:
Constant fighting, discontentment, and bickering from either or both the partners
There is a lack of emotional and physical connect
Overindulgence by one or both partners - social, addictions, work & more
Inability to solve problems or a spouse dominates the decision making
There are trust issues in the relationship
Experiencing intimacy issues, or not having sex at all
There are significant life-goal disagreements - Children, money, work & more
Interference of families or friends in mutual matters.
How Marriage Therapy Helps:
Release pent up emotions in a safe space
Create healthy barriers for your wellbeing
Identify cause of emotional / physical disconnect
Strengthen or re-evaluate the bond
Find love, respect & new feelings
Rectify power imbalance & expectations
Improve communication & resseliance
History taking will be the foundation of the first few sessions depending on the nature of the case and the willingness and clarity of the couple.
Hearing out the concern from both partners & how these conflicts are impacting them personally & as a couple
Assessing the equation between the partners in terms of decision making, expectations, their personal & combined roles, responsibilities & feelings
Therapists assistance with soft skills & tips to achieve a common ground for reflection and learning
The counselor helps the couple identify the dysfunctional patterns. At this stage the couple has to decide to build on the marriage or reassess the relation
Tasks assigned in sessions serve as a catalyst for change in the couple relationship. Self work is crucial at this stage.
The challenges in marriage can come in future too, so the therapist helps the couple learn how to communicate, express and manage future conflicts without hurting
Ensuring a win-win situation for both the partners. The follow-ups are required to monitor progress and prevent relapse in a marital relationship